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KONMARI WITH KIDS: BOOKS


Welcome to my new series: 'KonMari With Kids'. 

Last week I shared how I KonMari'd my kids clothes - Baby, Toddler and Tween. You can read all about it HERE.

If you have just joined me - WELCOME - I recently completed the KonMari method with my OWN belongings, read 'My KonMari Journey' to see how I did.  Now, it's time to get stuck into my kid's stuff - I have two children: Miss B, soon to be 12 years old and Master M, soon to be 3 years old. 

Marie suggests children as young as three years old can decide what gives them joy and the key principle is that each person should be making the decisions for themselves. Before you tackle your kids items, she does recommend you KonMari your own belongings first. 

In a nutshell, Marie Kondo has four rules she recommends people follow when doing the KonMari Method:

1. Tidy in one shot, as quickly and completely as possible
2. Sort by category, not by location
3. Selection Criterion: Does it 'spark joy?'
4. Order of tidying: Clothes, Books, Documents (Paper), Miscellaneous items (Komono), and Mementos (Sentimental)

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Today I am sharing: KIDS BOOKS 




BABY & TODDLER

As a Mum and Teacher, I know how important it is to read to and with your children. When my daughter was younger, we had A LOT of books, probably 3 times more than the photo above, many of which were not read because she had her favourites, as they do. So when we moved out of our home (she was 7), we culled her books, only keeping the ones she absolutely loved and donated the rest. Fast forward a few years and those books are now in her little brother's collection. 

When we moved into our new home, the previous owners left a buffet table unit with shelves and slider cupboard doors - which has become a fantastic storage unit for kids toys and books. I put baby toys, books and puzzles in one side of the unit. 

I organise the books by colour, as this makes it a lot easier when it is time to tidy up and after a while our toddler was able to return books on his own - and plus, who doesn't love looking at a rainbow of books. 

Our son is turning 3 in March, so I figured it was time to make changes to this cupboard. As you can see in the picture below, it's overflowing with items that are no longer suitable for our son. It's also a good time to go through the books and remove any 'baby' books. 

BEFORE:


We also have a front facing library shelf in the playroom, where I rotate a collection of his books.


Following Kondo's rules, I took all of the books out of the cupboard and put them on the lounge floor. I also grabbed a small collection of Little Golden Books that were in his room, and added them to the pile. 


I had my little helper, helping me decide which books 'spark joy' and which books don't. I didn't think he would say no to any, but he did. He found a few new favourites too.


DONATE PILE

As you can see our donate pile is fairly small, that being said - it is made up of baby books, duplicates and books we don't read, so we are passing them on. I think we had two books that needed to be discarded because they were badly ripped. 


AFTER:

I decided to organise the books by colour again because it is a system that works for our family and it is helping our son with colour recognition, so it's a win win. I have also taken away a lot of the 'baby' toys and puzzles and replaced them with puzzles and activities that are age appropriate. I donated the puzzles and discovery bottles to his home-based carer who has two under 2's. 



TWEEN

As I mentioned above, when my daughter was younger, she had A LOT of books. By the time we moved in with my partner, Miss B was 7 and she was starting to read chapter books more. So we donated majority of her picture books to a local op-shop - only keeping her/our favourites.

Fast forward a few years, her book collection has grown - not by much though because she got into the habit of loaning her books from the school library or public library (which is a great idea), and all of her picture books were passed on to Master M.

We corralled her books together and she started to pick out her favourites and donated the ones she no longer wanted. I forgot to take a photo, but there were about 5 or 6 that went into the donate bin.

BEFORE:

AFTER:

Miss B has her books stored on an 8-shelf unit in her wardrobe. She still loans books from the library, and asks for a book every Christmas and Birthday (which is just around the corner), so for now her collection is small, however she loves each of these books and will happily read them over and over again. 




KonMari With Kids: BOOKS - COMPLETED

To be honest with you, I thought this category was going to be hard, but it actually wasn't. Yes it can be very overwhelming and a tad daunting when you put ALL of the books in one place, however it's a good opportunity to see what you have, corral like books together and organise them in a way that is going to benefit the whole family and make it easier to maintain.

TIP: If you have hundreds of books (and I know of some families who do), simply categorise them into groups - picture books, baby/board books, chapter books, topic/theme books, non-fiction/fiction etc and tackle each category one by one. 

Once you have sorted the books, one idea is to start a library system where each child or member of your home can 'issue' 4-5 books a week, to keep in a little basket in their room. 

Ideally, you want ALL of your books in one place, but that doesn't work for us. We have, what I think, is a manageable amount of books in our home and our collection will grow over the years, the great thing is, we have systems in place that work (for us), to help us not become overwhelmed. If a book no longer sparks joy, we donate it.

You might also like: My KonMari Journey: BOOKS - my own journey of using the method with my book collection.

Coming Up Next: KonMari With Kids: PAPER (Art Work)
My kids don't have A LOT of paper (definitely not as much as I did), however they do bring home A LOT of Art Work, so that is what I plan to tackle next. Watch this space. 

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KonMari With Kids - Clothes (Baby, Toddler and Tween)




Welcome to my new series: 'KonMari With Kids'. 

Last year (2016) saw me going through the KonMari method with my OWN belongings and now that I have completed 'My KonMari Journey', it's time to get stuck into the kid's stuff. For those who don't already know, I have two children: Miss B, soon to be 12 years old and Master M, soon to be 3 years old. 

Marie suggests children as young as three years old can decide what gives them joy and the key principle is that each person should be making the decisions for themselves. Before you tackle your kids items, she does recommend you KonMari your own belongings first. 

"The KonMari Method is to tidy all at once and in the right order. Always start with clothes, then books, followed by documents, miscellaneous (e.g. kitchen), and then finally sentimental items. If you tidy room by room instead, you'll spend the rest of your life tidying."

In a nutshell, Marie Kondo has four rules she recommends people follow when doing the KonMari Method:

1. Tidy in one shot, as quickly and completely as possible
2. Sort by category, not by location
3. Selection Criterion: Does it 'spark joy?'
4. Order of tidying: Clothes, Books, Documents (Paper), Miscellaneous items (Komono), and Mementos (Sentimental)

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Today I am sharing: KIDS CLOTHES

I have broken this post into THREE parts - BABY, TODDLER & TWEEN. 

- BABY -

I started a system in back in 2014 for all my son's baby clothes. I had containers with labels, but as the months went on, it started to get out of control. 

Back in September 2016, I grabbed all of my son's baby clothes out of the wardrobe and other places I had them stored, and pulled them into the lounge. They were all mixed up and it was doing my head in. So I emptied out all the (40L and 60L) containers and bags, sorted them into different sizes - NB, 0-3, 3-6, 6-9, 9-12, Size 1 and Size 2 and then corralled like items together (e.g. tops, bottoms, onesies). For me, it was better to sort by size because if any of my friends or family were having a baby or needed a specific size, it was much easier to find, rather than sifting through 6+ containers.


It took me a couple of hours to go through all of the clothes - there was A LOT.

The mission was to 'sort them into categories' so when it came time to KonMari the clothes, they were already sorted into sizes. 

Mission Accomplished.


Fast forward a few months...Up until recently I had the containers stacked up in the corner of my son's bedroom, waiting for me to KonMari them. 

I had even more reason to go through the baby clothes because two of my friends were expecting little boys around the same time. So I told them I would make them up a container of mixed sized baby clothes for the first year. 


I made up 5 piles: 

FRIEND 1 - requested 3 months - 1 year
FRIEND 2 - requested NB - 1 year
FAVOURITES - any clothes that sparked joy I keep
DONATE - donating clothes to Plunket (who make up Kid Kits for families in need)
DISCARD - any ripped or badly stained clothes 

So I started with the bigger clothes (Size 1) and selected a few items of each sub-category (e.g. tops, bottoms, onesies, pjs etc) and put them into the different piles. It was easier going from biggest to smallest because it meant I wasn't going to double handle the clothes. I did the same thing for all of the sizes - Size 1, 9-12 months, 6-9 months, 3-6 months and lastly NB-3 months.

It was nice taking a trip down memory lane - I must admit I did get a little clucky and emotional especially when I got to the newborn clothes) - they were so little (even though my son was 10lb 14oz!). I held each item in my hands, if it sparked joy - I kept it...if it didn't - then it was sorted into one of the other 4 piles. 


KEEP PILE

From all of those containers, this is all that sparked joy - one plastic shopping bag! Amazing right? I thought I was going to hold on to a lot more than this. However, I know that the gift of giving and seeing the new babies in my son's clothes will bring me more joy, so I am happy with what I kept, and most of the items are neutral colours, so IF we do have another baby, he/she can wear them. 

DISCARD

I knew my discard pile would be small because when I originally went through the clothes, I discarded a whole bunch that were ripped and stained, items I wouldn't pass on to other families. Depending on the fabric, instead of putting them in the rubbish, you can re-use them as rags for cleaning. 


GIFT TO FRIENDS

I felt really good making up these containers for my friends who were expecting little boys. I was able to help them out by giving them enough clothes to last them the first year - their little boy's wardrobe sorted! One friend requested 3 months to 1 year because she already was given a whole lot of newborn clothes from family members, and they really do grow out of them quickly. My other friend had two containers (1 with NB-3 months, and 3 months - 1 year, plus some wraps and a few blankets). I used the labels I had made back in 2014, so she could see what sizes were in each container. To finish it off, I wrapped some ribbon around the containers, to make them look like gifts. My friends were very happy and very grateful! 


DONATE

I managed to fill a big canvas bag of baby clothes, ready to be dropped off to Plunket, who make up Kid Kits for families in need - it's such a great initiative. I am really glad I was able to help. Knowing that these clothes are going to families who need them is way better than having them stored in containers in the corner of my son's room. It felt really good - I'm very proud of myself for doing this - I never thought I would part with my son's clothes, but I did! 


I encouraged Master M to say 'thank you' to the clothes before I put them in the car. I also said 'thank you' and dropped the clothes off. 


It was such a liberating feeling. I also decided to give the box of Size 2 clothes (40L container) to a close friend. 


- TODDLER -


When it came to sorting through my son's clothes, I got him to help me. 

The first thing we did was pulled the clothes out of the drawers - he loved doing this and sorted them into sub-categories: tops, shorts, pants, pyjamas, underwear + socks, and jackets. 

We went through each sub-category, taking out all of the size 2 clothes (ready to be donated). There were a few size 2 items that my son still fitted and that he liked, so we kept them. For everything else, I handed him items and asked if it makes him happy? and Do you want to keep this? He confidently said YES & NO.



Once he was happy with what he had left, it was time to put them back into the drawers. I folded his clothes (KonMari fold) and he placed them in the drawers - it was a great team effort. My son loves opening his drawers and grabbing out the clothes he is going to wear.

NOTE: my son doesn't have any hanging clothes in his wardrobe - all of his clothes fit in his four drawers. (See: DIY Giraffe-Inspired Drawers)

1. T-Shirts & Underwear/Socks


2. Shorts and Pants

3. Pyjamas (Summer and Winter)

4. Jumpers and Jackets

DONATE 

The 'Size 2' clothes that were purged from the toddler clothes were added to the Size 2 clothes container (40L) mentioned above. 


- TWEEN -

My daughter (soon to be 12) has jumped on the KonMari train and is really excited about using the KonMari method with her belongings. Because she is old enough, she does it all - I am only there to guide her through the method. 

NOTE: In December 2015, before I even started the KonMari method, we did a massive purge of my daughters clothes and donated two full black rubbish bags.

The first thing she did was took out ALL of her clothes and shoes from her drawers and wardrobe and made a pile in the middle of her bedroom floor. 



Then she sorted them into sub-categories: Tops, Bottoms, Dresses, Tights, Shorts, Underwear, Jackets, Pyjamas and Shoes


Starting with the tops, she held each item and asked herself 'Does this spark joy' - if it did she put it in her keep pile, if it didn't - she chucked it out of her bedroom door to be donated. 

DONATE PILE

My daughter was surprised at how many clothes didn't spark joy. 


KEEP PILE

She sorted her clothes into two piles - Clothes for Wardrobe and Clothes for Drawers. Last year we sold her big tallboy drawers and opted for a smaller 4 drawer tallboy that sits perfectly in her wardrobe. 


Miss B hung her clothes up in her wardrobe and proceeded to fold the rest of her clothes.







My daughter has taken a liking to the KonMari Folding Method. She loves how her clothes look in her drawers and finds it easier to keep them tidy by having everything stored vertically. The top drawer has her underwear and socks (not pictured). She prefers to roll her socks and is totally okay with that. Her bottom drawer is currently empty. 

Pyjamas (Summer & Winter)

Tights and Shorts

Miss B discarded a couple of pairs of shoes, only keeping the ones that spark joy. The flexi tub sits in the bottom of her wardrobe. 



KonMari With Kids: Clothes (Baby, Toddler & Tween)

COMPLETED


It feels so good going through all of the kids clothes and only keeping the things they NEED and that SPARK JOY! They can actually open and close their drawers and see what's in them. Having less clothes to wash has also made doing the laundry a lot less stressful. My daughter folds her own clothes and my son helps me put his clothes in his drawers. 

Coming Up Next: KonMari With Kids: Books

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TAKING STOCK - January 2017


And just like that, we have reached the end of January! One month down, 11 to go! Is it really going to be one of those years when we blink and it's Christmas again! Eek!

Welcome to the first 'Taking Stock' post for 2017. You can read all of my 'Taking Stock' posts HERE. Pip from Meet Me At Mike is the mastermind behind this series, so be sure to check out her blog. This is something I have done since I started blogging and will continue to do this year - I love looking back at previous months. In a nutshell, it's simply taking a step back and 'taking stock' of what's currently happening in your life. 

Here's what's been happening in the month of JANUARY...


Making: memories with my family. Earlier this month, we had a Mini Family Holiday. We took the kids up to the top of New Zealand, to Cape Reinga. The view was amazing, the weather was gorgeous and the kids had a great time swimming at every beach we went to. 


Drinking: water - lots and lots of water

Reading: Spark Joy - needing some inspiration as I head into my next KonMari series - 'KonMari With Kids' - next week I am kicking it off with CLOTHES...Watch this space. 

Trawling: the internet for kids lunch box ideas - I came across this amazing page with lots of inspiration. 

Wanting: Home & Away to come back! We are going to be a week behind Australia. The suspense is killing me. No spoilers please Australian followers x

Enjoying: meeting blogging friends! After a couple of years of chatting online, I finally got to meet my blogging gal pals, Claire (My Other Name is Mum) & Lydia (Always Made With Love), and their gorgeous babies. 


Looking: forward to getting back into my morning routines. Don't get me wrong, I have LOVED my sleep ins and not having to do school drop off and pick up, however those extra couple of hours of sleep ins have resulted in me being a little less productive with my time. Oops. 

Deciding: what bed to buy Miss B for her birthday. She is getting a mini room makeover for her 12th Birthday this year. 

Cooking: Slow Cooker 'Pulled' Bolar Roast - thanks to my sis-in-law for sharing her recipe with me. It was so good, and the best thing is: we had a bit left over to make a pie for dinner the next night! Winning!

Wishing: everyone who celebrated a birthday this month - HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! Hope you had a wonderful day x

Liking: Project 333. I am really glad I started it - this has been my first month. I am no longer stressed in the morning wondering what I am going to wear, because everything that is in my wardrobe I love and feel comfortable in - that's the most important thing, right? 

Wondering: how Miss B's first day is going to go tomorrow. She is quite anxious about new beginnings. Hopefully all will be fine and she will have a fab day. 

Buying: new stationery from KMart and a gorgeous cleaning journal from Warehouse Stationery.



Loving: the #31Days2GetOrganized challenge with Peter Walsh. It's amazing what you can achieve in 10 - 15 minutes. Most of the areas in my home were in pretty good shape since My KonMari Journey, however there were a few things that left my home because they didn't spark joy or I hadn't used them in a while. 

Playing: with Master M! I saw a friend share this idea on her SnapChat and had to give it a go.  All you need to do is freeze some small toys and let your child break the ice to get them out, or wait for the ice to melt. My son loved it - he was determined to get all of his dinosaurs. 





Hoping: to catch up with my Coffee Group next week! It's been ages since we caught up. 

Marvelling: at @an_organized_life 's Instagram feed! Lauren has a stunning home and shares some great tips about how to keep your home organised. She is such an inspiration.

Knowing: how to fold a fitted sheet has been a game changer for me! Love it! 


Needing: a nap.

Wearing: my Havaianas everywhere.

Admiring: these gorgeous flowers my sis-in-law picked for me from their new home! 



Feeling: nervous about my new job.

Watching
: Gilmore Girls - I am up to Season 6, Episode 5...It's been awesome watching from the beginning.

Celebrating: ONE YEAR LATER of My KonMari Journey. 


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Now it's YOUR turn...

Tell me, what's been happening in YOUR world? How was DECEMBER for you?
Choose three (or more) words from the list and 'take stock' in the comments below.



From my family to yours xx
Take care and enjoy the last couple of days of 2016!
Charlene




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